“If your partner is consenting, you will see them meeting you halfway on stuff, responding to your touch, touching you back, making approving noises, positioning their body helpfully, making occasional eye contact, smiling, giggling, kissing you, smelling your skin.

If your partner pulls away, flinches, draws back, goes still, goes limp, freezes, is silent, looks unhappy, starts holding their breath, goes from meeting you halfway to merely allowing your touch: stop and check in with words. Maybe they’re ticklish? Maybe they want to stop.”

fish-boned:

shickalenia:

dduane:

thesuitsofwoah:

that’s almost too cruel
almost

I had to do this once with Privateer II: The Darkening. It gained a bit when he said “I bet you didn’t play it through, I bet somebody just told you how…” and I was able to smile gently and say “God, possibly, since I wrote the game.” And plainly the Deity was with me that day, as I happened to be carrying docs from my UK agent (who’d done the deal) that showed not only that I was the writer, but the five-figure sum I had been paid. …It was a happy day for me. Not so much for him. I’d never had a referent for the word “slink” for a full grown male before. As in “slink away in utter dejection.” I smiled for at least three days without stopping. And am smiling now… I had completely forgotten about this.

Reblogging because “I beat the game” is fantastic, but “I wrote the damn thing” is even better.

I’m not a gamer but I’ll always reblog these.

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plansfornigel:

and these are the men women are suppose to call when raped. what is this rape culture you speak of ?

Wow. This is so powerful. plansfornigel:

and these are the men women are suppose to call when raped. what is this rape culture you speak of ?

Wow. This is so powerful. plansfornigel:

and these are the men women are suppose to call when raped. what is this rape culture you speak of ?

Wow. This is so powerful. plansfornigel:

and these are the men women are suppose to call when raped. what is this rape culture you speak of ?

Wow. This is so powerful. plansfornigel:

and these are the men women are suppose to call when raped. what is this rape culture you speak of ?

Wow. This is so powerful. plansfornigel:

and these are the men women are suppose to call when raped. what is this rape culture you speak of ?

Wow. This is so powerful. plansfornigel:

and these are the men women are suppose to call when raped. what is this rape culture you speak of ?

Wow. This is so powerful. plansfornigel:

and these are the men women are suppose to call when raped. what is this rape culture you speak of ?

Wow. This is so powerful. plansfornigel:

and these are the men women are suppose to call when raped. what is this rape culture you speak of ?

Wow. This is so powerful. plansfornigel:

and these are the men women are suppose to call when raped. what is this rape culture you speak of ?

Wow. This is so powerful.

plansfornigel:

and these are the men women are suppose to call when raped. what is this rape culture you speak of ?

Wow. This is so powerful.

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send-a-smile:

"The Rape Poem to End All Rape Poems."

One of the best pieces of group spoken word poetry I’ve ever seen. WATCH IT. 

Truth.

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“Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man’s character, give him power.”
— Abraham Lincoln (via observando)
“The man who leaves money to charity in his will is only giving away what no longer belongs to him.”
— Voltaire (via observando)

freedominwickedness:

hyenaboy:

Yes, being in a female dominated field, I do know what it means to be marginalized. “

oh

my

god

omg

The really ugly part is they’ve actually done multiple sociological studies on this, and guess what the result is? Men…

asmisfortunelovesorphans:


thirty-one states and a federal district (1/2)

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asmisfortunelovesorphans:


thirty-one states and a federal district (1/2)

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asmisfortunelovesorphans:


thirty-one states and a federal district (1/2)

(inspiration)
asmisfortunelovesorphans:


thirty-one states and a federal district (1/2)

(inspiration)
asmisfortunelovesorphans:


thirty-one states and a federal district (1/2)

(inspiration)
asmisfortunelovesorphans:


thirty-one states and a federal district (1/2)

(inspiration)
asmisfortunelovesorphans:


thirty-one states and a federal district (1/2)

(inspiration)
asmisfortunelovesorphans:


thirty-one states and a federal district (1/2)

(inspiration)
justcallmesushi:

"We’re learning a lot about this thing called Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. This war time disease. This combat fatigue diagnosis. And we read something worth sharing. Fact, urban youth are twice as likely to get Post Traumatic Stress Disorder than soldiers who are coming home from war. So tell me, what’s the difference between homicide in the streets and bloodshed on the battlefields of Iraq. […] The only difference there is between a soldier with PTSD and one of my students with it is that a soldier gets to leave the battlefield, while my kids go home to it."
Javon Johnson & Terisa Siagatonu- “PTSD
justcallmesushi:

"We’re learning a lot about this thing called Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. This war time disease. This combat fatigue diagnosis. And we read something worth sharing. Fact, urban youth are twice as likely to get Post Traumatic Stress Disorder than soldiers who are coming home from war. So tell me, what’s the difference between homicide in the streets and bloodshed on the battlefields of Iraq. […] The only difference there is between a soldier with PTSD and one of my students with it is that a soldier gets to leave the battlefield, while my kids go home to it."
Javon Johnson & Terisa Siagatonu- “PTSD
justcallmesushi:

"We’re learning a lot about this thing called Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. This war time disease. This combat fatigue diagnosis. And we read something worth sharing. Fact, urban youth are twice as likely to get Post Traumatic Stress Disorder than soldiers who are coming home from war. So tell me, what’s the difference between homicide in the streets and bloodshed on the battlefields of Iraq. […] The only difference there is between a soldier with PTSD and one of my students with it is that a soldier gets to leave the battlefield, while my kids go home to it."
Javon Johnson & Terisa Siagatonu- “PTSD
justcallmesushi:

"We’re learning a lot about this thing called Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. This war time disease. This combat fatigue diagnosis. And we read something worth sharing. Fact, urban youth are twice as likely to get Post Traumatic Stress Disorder than soldiers who are coming home from war. So tell me, what’s the difference between homicide in the streets and bloodshed on the battlefields of Iraq. […] The only difference there is between a soldier with PTSD and one of my students with it is that a soldier gets to leave the battlefield, while my kids go home to it."
Javon Johnson & Terisa Siagatonu- “PTSD
justcallmesushi:

"We’re learning a lot about this thing called Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. This war time disease. This combat fatigue diagnosis. And we read something worth sharing. Fact, urban youth are twice as likely to get Post Traumatic Stress Disorder than soldiers who are coming home from war. So tell me, what’s the difference between homicide in the streets and bloodshed on the battlefields of Iraq. […] The only difference there is between a soldier with PTSD and one of my students with it is that a soldier gets to leave the battlefield, while my kids go home to it."
Javon Johnson & Terisa Siagatonu- “PTSD
justcallmesushi:

"We’re learning a lot about this thing called Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. This war time disease. This combat fatigue diagnosis. And we read something worth sharing. Fact, urban youth are twice as likely to get Post Traumatic Stress Disorder than soldiers who are coming home from war. So tell me, what’s the difference between homicide in the streets and bloodshed on the battlefields of Iraq. […] The only difference there is between a soldier with PTSD and one of my students with it is that a soldier gets to leave the battlefield, while my kids go home to it."
Javon Johnson & Terisa Siagatonu- “PTSD
justcallmesushi:

"We’re learning a lot about this thing called Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. This war time disease. This combat fatigue diagnosis. And we read something worth sharing. Fact, urban youth are twice as likely to get Post Traumatic Stress Disorder than soldiers who are coming home from war. So tell me, what’s the difference between homicide in the streets and bloodshed on the battlefields of Iraq. […] The only difference there is between a soldier with PTSD and one of my students with it is that a soldier gets to leave the battlefield, while my kids go home to it."
Javon Johnson & Terisa Siagatonu- “PTSD

justcallmesushi:

"We’re learning a lot about this thing called Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. This war time disease. This combat fatigue diagnosis. And we read something worth sharing. Fact, urban youth are twice as likely to get Post Traumatic Stress Disorder than soldiers who are coming home from war. So tell me, what’s the difference between homicide in the streets and bloodshed on the battlefields of Iraq. […] The only difference there is between a soldier with PTSD and one of my students with it is that a soldier gets to leave the battlefield, while my kids go home to it."

Javon Johnson & Terisa Siagatonu- “PTSD

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